
We’ve come a long way
Every day, we gain more acceptance from society, yet many of us still struggle in our daily lives because of harm done in our past.
Internalized homophobia, discrimination, lack of support, shame, etc. all greatly impact how we interact with the world. These outside forces are constantly telling us that we should not be accepted.

Meet the LGBTQIA+ Spaces Keeper
Gabe is a Queer musician and User Researcher based in Los Angeles. Growing up, acceptance and community was something Gabe knew he needed but struggled to navigate. He's always yearned for a strong sense of self in this world we live in. Gabe wants to discover what it was that his presence that others found so troublesome.

Participating in Totem’s Spaces has made a great impact on my day-to-day life. Hearing my thoughts and feelings that are shared by others in the community has made me feel less alone.
Mario M.

I appreciate having a space to express myself and not feel the need to validate or respond to others.
Chelsea R.
Kind words from members of LGBTQIA+ Spaces
FAQ
Can I be anonymous?

Yes! We don't mind if you don't use your real name. We will require enough information for moderation, like your email, but to other people (including Keepers) you can be whoever you want to be. However, we do require you share authentic stories.
What about privacy?

We have zero tolerance about discussing what happens in Totem to the outside. Anyone doing this will be permanently removed. Additionally, our communications during video calls are encrypted. The only people who can hear your shares are the people in your Space.
Is this a replacement for therapy?

No. While many people prefer Totem to therapy, it is not a replacement for traditional one-on-one therapy. However, Totem can be a great supplement if you already have ongoing therapy sessions and can help deepen your understanding of your work there
Are Keepers therapists?

Generally, no. Keepers differ from therapists in that their role is to ensure everything runs smoothly and safely for everyone. Otherwise, Keepers participate in discussions just like everyone else and do not offer advice or guidance.